Pleasure can come in so many ways. It can be sensual, sexual, or silly and saucy!

The space between Destruction & Creation...

By Allana Pratt

Dear friggen' fabulous Readers,

I don't know about your life... but mine is quite the unexpected ride these days.

It seems the clearer I get with who I am and what I choose the more things fall apart.

Logically that makes sense, whatever's in the way of what I choose would need to leave, shift, fall apart or step aside...

Yet man oh man... it can be uncomfortable as things exit, blow up, take 7 focused attempts to achieve what normally takes one casual action to get done... I notice myself wondering if I'm going bonkers.

And I am amazed at who calls at times when I'm going bonkers... and the gifts they provide with elegant ease... it makes me feel like the Universe really is benign, kind, and on my side.

Yet it arrives in odd packages. For instance my cat got bit by some varmint and needed to have shots and meds and stay inside all weekend. So we hung out in my bed for close to 48 hours. She went from growling, hissing and bitchy, to calm, affectionate and snuggly.

I wasn't that far off... I wrote in my journal, read, prayed, meditated, napped, self pleasured... got feisty and made some big demands of Me and the Universe... was surrendered when people would call and offer their precious nuggets.

As the year draws to a close, and the tension from the holidays starts to build, how great would it be to have weekly pleasure practices to help you deal with that stress, and carry you into next year? 

Check out my Pleasure Practices now:

If you're going through a time of transformation, it can be tremendously exciting, and yet also dark and squishy in the cocoon. Uncertain. Uncomfy... loved a video Dr. Dain made from Sweden about "Falling Apart" and how we can just BE with the discomfort and it changes... yes... like I say 'sitting in the fire' with what is... and how allowing it all to be transforms things... (DrDainHeer.com)

In fact I'm very grateful for a breakthrough I had because of creating a DVD for you with Dain a few weekends ago... It's about Sexuality, Intimacy and Your Body... it's available to you in November in time for the Holidays. After recording over 3 hours of content and being on set with Dain the whole day, swimming in his magnificent energy and consciousness... it was clear this DVD wasn't just for you... I was invited to come home to me, claim me, love me, honor me, be intimate with me in a way I simply hadn't seen possible before. And I said Yes.

I am confident with how I hold space and inspire the magnificence of you, my cherished clients and I am also humbled and vulnerable enough to know when I'm the student and my teacher has arrived. This DVD is potent, there is clearing all the way through it. I walked away (OK slithered all sultry and all sexy xoxoox) a different woman... the real me... and some of you have commented in private sessions I'm more calm, in videos that I'm more grounded... thank you.

And yet simultaneously in my life, all that I'd created having unknown 'layers' in front of my deepest truth... these structures, relationships and creations are falling away... yet finally some new things are arriving and I am so much more connected to what really matters, what really brings me joy... that it helps cradle me in the space between destruction and creation.

Pleasure can come in so many ways. It can be sensual, sexual, or silly and saucy! 

I have 52 ideas to help you put pleasure into your life:

So my love, I cradle you where you are too, knowing what I know of your magnificence... tonight imagine it's me whispering in your ear as you look at your glorious face after you brush your teeth... have a listen for me... 'you are sooo phenomenal, you are so hot and fabulous, you are such a gift never before to walk this planet... thank you for You.'

I'm off to Nova Scotia with Gabe this week...a dream come true to travel with my son... I play and inspire and awaken my clients, he plays and learns and grows with cows, corn and farmers... we contribute our gifts... savoring all we are blessed to receive... yum yum yum...what else is possible?

Lusciously delicious snuggles,

Allana

P.S. I promise I will have more information about my upcoming DVD with Dr. Dain soon, but meanwhile check out my pleasure practices and sign up for more information:

P.P.S. I love you, and yearn for you to have more pleasure in your life.

A guy in NYC complained about his relationships getting stale quickly, boring, not fresh...

By Allana Pratt, Intimacy Expert

Dear love how you step up and handle it readers,

Scot McKay interviewed me last week for his podcast.

A question came in from a guy in NYC who complained about his relationships getting stale quickly, boring, not fresh.

I challenged him to ask what was stale, boring and not fresh about him?

He had added that it's a pattern for him.

I continued that it's so easy to blame the relationship or the woman for this pattern... yet you know me... the only one in common here is HIM!

I sense a place in him where things are going well... yet he starts to play it safe, pull back, and it SEEMS like it's a boring relationship, but REALLY it's a survival mechanism to protect him from risking rejection, from going deeper, from being more vulnerable, intimate, raw, connected, out of control....

Not CRAZY WACKY out of control, but out of expectations, out of limitations, out of the known and into the wonderously wild world of the unknown.

It's like he has stopped getting to know the depth of HIM, expanding who HE is, he's playing it safe.

Sex when you know exactly what's going to happen next is soooo awful, yes?

Yet sex when you have no idea what's next is exhilarating.

Click here for Scoring a Relationship>>> 


Scot and I talked about this on his show, about how intimate, sensual, hot relationships are more than just copulation. Foreplay is an all day affair.

So I told the caller from NYC about my Scoring a Relationship Program. It's all about inspiring men to dig deeper into THEMSELVES to turn a gift into an experience that builds intimacy, sexual tension and results in a wanton woman aching for YOU... it results in a woman who sooo trusts you and falls into the banks of the river you create in her life, that she doesn't stray...

...she becomes devoted to YOU.

In fact I was feeling generous so I gave this gentleman the program for free... because Scoring a Relationship could be the very catalyst to wake him up and make him sit in the fire of his own hesitancy, risk rejection yet open the door to the exciting, bold, fresh relationship he craves... if HE will show up then HE will create it!

If you haven't got this program yet, get it. Not only do you receive the 10 step by step proven ideas, you see a prior boyfriend of mine in action, in a photo shoot, performing these very ideas in a series of hot pictures with me...

AND there are 3 additional bonus interviews of how men like Ricki Williams, former football all star, score in their relationships. And it's in mp3 form so you can listen right before you're on your date to pump you up!

I soooo believe in you, you glorious man!

Yet you have to step up or I can't help!

Get this for you (and for her) now, and just like the caller from NYC, keep me posted on your wins for I love to celebrate the results I get with amazing men like yourself.

Truly it turns me on when a man is courageous enough to stop complaining and take bold action to create what he wants. Yum.

Here is the link to my simple, hot and effective Scoring a Relationship Program>>>


Deliciously yours, Allana